Does sex helps in relationship?

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Justin Velasquez said: For me, personally, sex has led me to more confusion, more emptiness, more heartbreak then I would like to admit. I could say I love the person, when the fact of the matter is that I just love how they make me feel at the time. True love involves really knowing the person and caring about them. It involves a deep friendship.

Eventually lust will involve feelings of resentment, disgust, anger, and other negative feelings for the person, whereas with love, if the relationship ever ends for some reason, there are less negative feelings.

I want to keep our relationship and want to avoid anything that can effect us now or after marriage. I heard some people saying sex before marriage let to distrust even after marriage and i don't want all those thing to happen.

Does sex helps in relationship?

The First Kiss...

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I had never kiss anyone in my life, though i have seen quite a number of time in movies i have no idea how to start and when to start but i know i was desperate to kiss her this time.. I continue to walk down the stair..in a dilemma.. to kiss or let it go again this time also as was always been..

Then suddenly i stop at the middle of the stair..Then i turn around and say to myself  "you can do it, it is now or never", 

I imagine the soft and tender lips of her..but i'm still not confident. Will she ever like to kiss me? Am i just ruining our relationship? She could have hate me for my act. But i forget everything that pull me back. I had no courage till i open the door.

B'Cause i love you

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I was once a clever and sharp..
I thought i could read mind of others, but i couldn't read yours
I can read your smile before..
But i couldn't even understand what i see..

They say love is blind..but i make  myself  a blind b'cause i love..
I make myself a stupid b'cause i love you..
May be i love you so much that it make me not able to read your  mind..
I would rather remain stupid than loosing you..
I would rather remain not able to read your mind than be parted from you..


I love being a stupid lover of you.. Oh! how i love to be fulltime crazy..
People may see me as a world class freak and crazy..
I love to be called a crazy than a wise if i could be by your side..
Because i love  you..

Are you bold enough to tell me...

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Are you bold enough to tell that you love someone?

if you love me let me know,..

what if tomorrow never comes, 

will she ever know that you love her..

What if you don't get another chance to tell what you feel about her..

 if you love me let me know, if you don't set me free..

How cruel could you be to play over someone's heartfelt love...

be bold enough to tell that you don't love her anymore..

if you love me let me know, if you don't set me free..

Are you a lover??

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Player: usually like someone easily, get bored easily.. love has no much meaning,,, just a game..it is all about self interest..

Compromise: Can stick in the relationship unless they find someone better than you..They keep relationship as a waiting platform for a better one to turn up..They don't care much about what you do.. where  you are.. But this could also turn out to be a true lover if you are clever and really want it.. but this is a bit risky..like a dormant volcano can erupt anytime..you don't know when will they change their mind..

Bonded: The most sympathetic relationship i can imagine. Sticking in to relationship not because they love it. The bonding force my be anything from worrying of disclosure of their past (sex activity or something), bonded financially or anything..

Sincere: Most lasting and fruitful lover are the sincere ones.. this can cope with almost all the above categories and most of the case work out successful..cause they don't start easily nor quit easily..They are sure about what they want and what they love for..

Heartfelt: Most romantic and most fantastic romance..pop out not from the mind..but from the heart..straight form the heart and straight to the heart..

Do you think love do hurts? Doesn't it hurt? They say love hurts..how does it feel being in love?? The more it hurts the more you will feel,..the harder it hurts the softer your bosom..I won't realize i'm in love if it doesn't hurts me..

I wanna feel you in my soul..

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i couldn't have enough..
i feel max when hugging you without any words..
i don't want my words to spoil the warm feelings of you..

REALLY??


i wish they are lies..
But that's what i am feeling..
i have been cheating my feelings..
it only get worse,,,

Falling in Love..

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I know this will hurt me someday
I know this will let me fall
I know this will even break me very bad..
I don't know how cruel life could be..
You worth the risk, i must stick with you..

I rather be broken than not by your side..
I rather be hurt than loosing you...
I rather be at the risk than watching you with someone else..
Cause you fill my heart with gladness and takes away all my sadness,
Ease my troubles, That's what you do...

Want to feel some sparks in your romance life???

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Many of these days relationship are not lasting and are not working out as they are probably suppose to be.

What Ms. Dr. Emma Illoyed says is that many of us are expecting some fantastic sparks in our romance, which is actually a novellic and not practical everytime. And she says, if you have some sparks it will cause a fire and the fire someday will only burn you down. She add that Real Love is all about perfect decission and commitment to it. A perfect love is loving perfectly but not about loving the perfect.

By Dr. Emma Illoyed (accidental husband)